Well, if that's too romantic, then you and I are in the same in boat. I might get off to some porn with multiples where one person is the center of attention, but it's not really mine thing either.>>5986745
Yeah. And that's one of my other issues with poly. At least every time thus far, I've been pretty solely devoted to my partner, whether they asked for it or not. It's hard for me to be anything but once the love bug bites. Which means I'm inherently far more focused on them, not others, and want more of their time and attention to match. As such, I can't see myself as anything but a primary in such a situation, and then the secondary suffers... or more realistically I'd end up hurting myself by sacrificing my wants/needs in order to avoid causing someone else we cared about to suffer.>>5987575
Mmm, maybe? Sometimes the term varies (House, Pack, Den) but I've seen it used fairly often for kinky groups of various poly arrangements that including sharing an abode.>>5991058
Hmm, no experience, so can't really say myself whether this thought works safely or not, but humans have two knees and two hands, yes?>>5989782
My only plans are driving up to an anime con in order to register for a booth at a different one. Hopefully I'll have dinner with some friends...